Whether Confession is good or bad?

Hello Guys,         

I need to write on this blog because of 3 major reason:

1. Now a day many Psychologist started to give their opinion randomly which could be dangerous, which is very harmful to society.
2. New generation is having lack of knowledge, learns from the movies and lives in dream world. They are not ready to accept the toughest situation of life.
3. Society living in lots of myths and not ready to accept the facts of life.

Confession is always said to be a good thing since ancient times in almost all religion.

Pros of Confession:

1. Our mind and body get relaxed.
2. No need to further fight with the guilt feelings.
3. Many times healthy relationship can be maintained.
4. People accept your broad mindedness.
5. Confessing with the parents, parents will take care for us that we don’t make such mistake again. 

In most of the normal cases Confession is good to be done, with the calm and kind hearted  and begging for the forgiveness. 

Cons of the Confession:

In the cases like cheating a friend, parents, partners  where the case is very complex and complicate even for to explain and understanding.  In such cases we need to be very carefully while confessing because may be after confessing our mind and heart would feel relaxed but if the opposite person’s mind and heart is not ready to accept that situation then not just we but also all related people have to face very crucial and problematic situation even it could be the lifelong problem or may be the problem of life and death. 

1. Our own life, career or society reputation could be in danger.  Family and people related to us can be in problem.
2. Sometimes at the first when you are explaining person at that time may be confessor forgive you but after sometime when he/she remember that incident then again anger generates in them and would like to take revenge not just with us but also with your family members and people related to it.
3. May be if confessor is deep in love with you but not ready to accept the confession which you said, in that case, there are chances that they become harmful to themselves or make suicide.
4. Still many other dangers are possible which I am not mentioning here.

Dear Friends,

Please remember, In Jainism it is said that, “Truth is good but the truth which could be harmful to others is not good, such truth is worse than lying”. So in some situation the better is that such truth be hidden or confusion state is good but truth must not come in front as that truth could be harmful to lots of people.

Please right your views in the comment. In next part I will tell you about Who can be your perfect confessor for making confession.